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Would your team choose you again if they had the choice?

It’s a question worth sitting with. Because your team will remember your leadership through the moments they experienced with you: How you responded under pressure Whether you listened when it mattered How safe it felt to bring you bad news Whether they felt trusted or monitored Most leaders start with the best intentions. They want a team that feels energised, empowered and able to grow. But changing demands distort even the strongest intentions. The work accelerates. Capacity tightens. You step in to take the slack because it feels responsible. You do rather than delegate. You protect rather than stretch. And the strain shows in small, human ways. Your tone tightens. Patience shortens. Decisions speed up. The space for listening narrows. Without meaning to, you create a different experience. People feel underused. Less trusted. Less capable. Confidence dips. Development stalls. The team hesitates to bring you issues, conscious of adding pressure. The dynamic spirals. I’ve seen this play out many times in teams I’ve led and in leaders I’ve worked alongside. The turning point often comes when a leader pauses long enough to take stock, finds their way back to the leader their team knows, and focuses on rebuilding the relationship with their team. Taking time out with the team creates the space to be honest about what’s happening, reset expectations together, and start re‑establishing trust. Teams are far more forgiving than we think.  When you acknowledge the impact of your actions, they meet you with understanding. Teams will choose to back you again if they believe one thing is real: that you are genuinely trying to act in their best interests. Not perfectly. Not flawlessly. But consistently, honestly, and with the courage to reset when things slip. That’s what people follow. That’s what they remember. That’s what earns you another chance. If this is something you’re exploring for yourself, I’m always happy to talk.

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If delegation is so essential to leadership, why does it feel so hard to do?

In SMEs especially, a lack of delegation is one of the biggest bottlenecks I see. Leaders find themselves absorbed in the doing rather than the leading. Teams feel under‑used or not trusted. The business slows down without anyone intending it to. Most leaders know they should delegate more. The reasons they don’t are natural: • “It’s quicker if I do it myself.” • “I don’t have time to explain it.” • “What if it goes wrong.”  • “Will it be done to the standard I need.” Habit. Comfort. A sense of control. Perfectionism. It’s rarely about competence. It’s about mindset. Delegation isn’t abdication. It’s not “off you go, good luck.”It’s clarity, trust and support.It’s giving people enough direction to succeed, enough autonomy to grow, and enough safety to ask for help. A small shift in mindset changes everything. When leaders see delegation as a strategic act rather than abdication or a loss of control, things start to open up: • They free themselves to operate at the right altitude  • Their people grow faster • Trust deepens • Capacity expands • The business moves Delegation isn’t about stepping back. It’s about stepping into the kind of leadership that lifts everyone.When leaders make that shift, the whole business feels it. If this resonates with you as a leader, I’m always happy to talk.

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Most leaders want culture to “belong to everyone. ”Yet the truth is that it still starts with them.

Many leaders tell me they want their culture to feel shared and inclusive. I also hear versions like “We don’t want a top‑down culture” or “Employees should shape the culture, not leaders.” The ultimate aim is often the same: to build a high‑performing culture where engagement is high, alignment is strong, and personal and business ambitions move in the same direction. The intent is positive. Of course, leaders want the culture to feel like something everyone contributes to. Yet in reality, leaders are still central to setting the tone. Their behaviour is the loudest signal in the room. A healthy culture A healthy culture feels psychologically safe, consistent and grounded in trust. Leaders create this by showing up predictably, communicating clearly, listening with intent and acting in line with the standards they set. Trust is built when their behaviour is steady, transparent and aligned with what they say. An unhealthy culture An unhealthy culture feels unpredictable and political. It often shows up as mistrust between employees, a sense of job insecurity, rising angst and a lot of wasted energy trying to interpret what changes really mean. Leaders contribute to this, often unintentionally, when their behaviour is inconsistent, when issues go unaddressed and when expectations shift without clarity or communication. And here’s the part that many leaders can overlook: You cannot build a high performing, high engagement culture until you have built a healthy one. High alignment, ambition and performance only stick when the basics are in place, when people feel safe, respected and clear on what is expected of them. For any leader, it is worth taking the time to ask: What culture is your behaviour creating today, and is it strong enough to support the performance you want tomorrow? This is the work I love supporting leaders with: building healthy environments first, then developing the high performing cultures that grow from them. If any of this resonates, I am always happy to talk.

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If organisational design isn’t structure charts…what is it really about?

A client asked me this recently. Many people assume organisational design starts with boxes and lines. It doesn’t. That’s a very small part of the work. It’s usually one of the final steps, not the first. As a Fractional HRD, this is the work I love because when it’s done well, it makes a fundamental difference to how an organisation performs, functions and feels. It’s especially valuable for SMEs and scale-ups growing at pace or needing to reshape themselves to meet new demands. At its heart, organisational design is about:Clarity of purposeWhat the organisation is actually trying to achieve. Leadership coherenceEnsuring strength, alignment and consistency across the leadership team.Work What genuinely needs to get done, the real work, not the imagined work. Capability and capacityThe right skills, in the right places, at the right time. Accountability and ownership Where responsibility sits, ensuring it’s clear, not duplicated or ambiguous. Decision making Who decides what, how quickly, and with what level of empowerment. Relationships and interdependenciesHow teams connect and collaborate to ensure a seamless flow of work. Culture and behavioural normsThe unwritten rules that shape how people show up and work together. As these foundations become clear, you can explore operating model options and, ultimately, the structure that reflects all the detailed design work. The way you do it matters Not behind closed doors. Not in isolation. But in collaboration with the people who hold the real insight: the leaders, teams and role holders who live the work every day. This can also set the tone for the way the business wants to operate in the future. A clear process builds trust A well proven approach removes subjectivity, builds confidence and keeps the pace steady. Transparent communication keeps people informed, involved and confident in the journey. Because organisational design isn’t about structure charts. It’s about creating the conditions for people to do their best work with clarity, alignment and confidence.If you are navigating growth or change and want to explore what good organisational design could look like for your business, I am always happy to have a conversation.

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More Than a Title: The Emotional Rollercoaster of Becoming a Leader

We can prepare leaders for many aspects of their role: strategy, governance, financial oversight, organisational performance and leading people. What’s harder to prepare them for is the emotional resilience the role demands. The emotional side of leadership only becomes real in practice. It’s unique to each individual, shaped by context and lived experience. You only truly understand it once you’re on the ride. The climb: the early ascent That first step into leadership often brings a mix of pride, excitement, anticipation and the disquiet that the title feels bigger than you. You’re visible in new ways. You’re learning fast. You’re trying to project confidence while still finding your footing. It can be both energising and exposing. The first drop: the moment reality hits Then comes the first big challenge.The moment something unexpected, uncomfortable or high‑stakes hits, and the responsibilities of the role suddenly feel very real. Whatever form it takes, it shakes your sense of balance. This is often the moment leaders realise the role requires more of them than the skills they’ve learned to date. It calls for courage, judgement and the composure to hold your nerve when the stakes feel personal. The loop the loop: the unseen work This is where most leaders spend their time.Navigating uncertainty. Carrying more than they can say out loud. Holding the hopes and frustrations of others. Staying composed even when they’re not entirely sure themselves. It’s the emotional labour no one sees . The  part that requires stamina and self‑belief and is the hardest to prepare for. The high point: when the work pays off This is the moment things start to lift. A decision delivers the outcome you hoped for. You receive recognition from a challenging stakeholder. A difficult conversation you’ve been delaying finally pays off. A team member you’ve been coaching steps up and grows. You come out the other side and realise you’re stronger, steadier, more capable than you thought. That quiet euphoria is what keeps leaders going. The quiet straight: the steadying phase A moment of calm. A chance to breathe, reflect and integrate what you’ve learned. This is where the role starts to feel like it fits — not because it’s easier, but because you’ve grown into it. And then the next climb begins again Because leadership isn’t linear. It’s cyclical. Very personal. Often demanding. Full of highs and lows but all the richer for it. Leadership is more than a title Leadership is more than a title, and no one should have to navigate the emotional rollercoaster alone. As a Fractional HRD and Coach I offer a steady sounding board and a space to think, helping leaders keep the excitement but navigate the journey more smoothly. If any of this resonates, I’m always happy to talk.

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Career transitions are rarely straightforward

Throughout my career, and now in my work as a Fractional HRD and coach, I’ve noticed how often conversations turn to career transitions. Sometimes they begin with a passing comment about feeling dissatisfied in a role. Sometimes they’re prompted by organisational change. Sometimes it’s the quiet acknowledgement: “This no longer feels right, but I’m not sure what would.” People often portray career transitions as clean, confident steps from one role to the next. In practice, they’re far more uneven. There are false starts. Moves that turn out not to be the right fit. Periods of feeling stuck or uncertain. Times when a role looks fine on paper but doesn’t feel right in practice. For many, this is when the harder questions begin to surface. Career transitions ask for self‑reflection and honesty, often at a moment when people feel least prepared for it. This is especially true when the change is driven by organisational decisions rather than personal choice. For some, their role has become part of how they see themselves. The title, the responsibility, the expertise… it all becomes woven into their sense of identity. So, when a role no longer fits, or is taken away through organisational change, it can feel unsettling both professionally and personally. For others, there’s the disquiet of financial concerns, something that can make decision‑making feel more difficult. Alongside this sits the worry of how their choices will be judged by others, when in truth they are usually their own toughest critic. At such times, people benefit from support to work this through. Not to rush to an answer, but to understand what’s changed and what matters now. Coaching can provide the clarity that’s been missing and create the conditions for honest reflection and conversation. Part of this is often about rebuilding self‑belief and confidence, recognising that experience, judgement and skills don’t disappear when circumstances change. Transitions, supported well, can create the opportunity to rethink, to reinvent, and to apply strengths in new and meaningful ways. If any of this resonates, I’d be happy to talk and explore it with you.

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Would you work for that CEO again?

A head-hunter asked me this recently, referencing a CEO I’d worked with years ago. It made me reflect on the responsibility leaders have in how they show up.People do have a choice about who they work with. We’ve all heard the saying that people don’t leave organisations, they leave their manager. The data is still a shocker though… at least half of employees have left a job to escape a manager at some point in their career. So often it comes down to behaviour, the day‑to‑day experience of being managed by that individual. That impact is amplified in a leadership role, where the leader sets the standard for others to follow. When I think about the leaders I’ve genuinely enjoyed working with then and now, there’s no cookie‑cutter formula… but there are some consistent truths: They have a clear vision and genuine passion for their business.• They understand their people are critical to success. They listen with openness, even when the conversation is difficult. They invest time and energy in what truly matters to their people.• They value my contribution and trust me to operate with autonomy, just as they do with the rest of their team.• They keep a sense of humour, even when things get tough. When you find a leader like that, you grow.You contribute more.You do your best work not because they’re perfect, but because they’re genuine, consistent and committed. If you’re reflecting on your own leadership right now, I’m always open to a conversation.

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Trust is the foundation behind every difficult conversation

As a Fractional HR Director, I’m often the sounding board leaders turn to when they’re facing a conversation they’d rather not have. Most leaders don’t struggle with strategy.They struggle with the conversations they’d prefer to avoid. The ones that sit on the edge of your mind.The ones you rehearse and postpone.The ones you hope might quietly resolve themselves. Avoidance rarely comes from a lack of care.More often, it comes from fear of impact, fear of conflict, fear of getting it wrong, or fear of being seen differently afterwards. Leaders often overlook that they do not just communicate through words. They communicate through what they choose to face and what they choose to avoid. Silence carries consequences.It can erode trust far more quickly than a difficult message ever will. Most people can handle honesty.What they cannot handle is uncertainty, mixed signals, or the sense that something important is being left unsaid. When leaders step into these conversations early and take the time to understand the other person’s perspective, trust deepens and relationships strengthen. But that trust is not created in the moment itself.It is shaped in the consistency of how a leader shows up every day, long before the difficult moments arrive. Leaders who invest in building trust create the foundations they need to navigate both the challenging individual conversations and the tough organisational messages that inevitably come with leadership. If you are a leader looking to build trust and navigate the difficult moments with confidence, let’s talk.

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Redundancy Isn’t Just a Process. It Shapes Trust and Culture

I’ve supported several people through redundancy recently, and one thing they’ve consistently shared is that they don’t fully understand the process they’re suddenly in. They’re thrown by the language:“at risk”,“in a pool”,“consultation”.These are terms routinely used in redundancy situations but very unsettling to people hearing them for the first time. And alongside the lack of clarity, there’s frequently a lack of emotional support.This is often the unintentional consequence of a lack of experience and capability. For some organisations, managers and HR teams, it’s a first, requiring skills they haven’t yet acquired. With redundancies rising again across the UK, more people are navigating this without effective support. Unfortunately, the impact is often underestimated. It reaches further than people realise:not just to the individual, but to their family,and not just to those leaving, but to those staying and beyond. Redundancy isn’t just a process.It’s a moment that shapes trust, culture, and how people feel about the organisation long after the letters are issued. Handled well, many people will still experience the impact but feel respected and supported to deal with it.Handled poorly, it becomes a stressful experience. It also changes how people, internally and externally, see the organisation, often in ways that take time to repair. Having supported redundancy processes for many years, I know it can be a difficult time for everyone involved. If you’re a leader navigating this and a confidential conversation would help, I’d be happy to talk.

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Looking Back: What I’d Tell My Younger Self

At the IWD Ashorne Hill event I attended, the panel of women were asked what advice they would give to their younger selves. It made me pause and reflect on mine. Work has always mattered deeply to me, but it took time to learn how to give it my energy without giving it all of me. If I could sit beside the ambitious woman I was at 25, I’d love to share a few things I’ve only come to understand along the way. She might not listen, of course. At 25 she was stubborn, determined, and very good at nodding politely while doing exactly what she’d already decided. So perhaps the first thing I’d say is this: Really listen.Don’t just pay lip service to advice. Give yourself time to reflect on the merits of what’s being said. The uncomfortable parts are often the most useful. Trust your mind, your voice, and your instincts.Don’t overthink or give other people’s opinions more weight than your own.Speak up sooner. Your instinct can serve you well. When something feels off, it usually is. Slow down to speed up.Rest isn’t indulgent; it’s what keeps you sharp.(Narrow boating taught me that long before I realised it.) Perfection is not always neededPerfection in all things could drive her, and at times everyone around her, to distraction.Think about where it truly adds value and don’t apply it by default. Ask for helpAsking for help isn’t a weakness. People want to help, and it’s often a compliment to be asked.  Learning from others is one of the smartest things she can do. Invest your energy wiselyThe right people will value her, and she should be selective about where she invests her energy. Not every room deserves her effort, and not every voice needs her attention. And maybe I’d tell her one more thing. That she doesn’t have to have it all figured out at 25. That the real growth happens in the living, not the planning, so she should let herself enjoy the ride. Here’s to all the young women at the start of their journeys and to those of us still very much on ours.

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